As you said, the 3 kids is irresponsible. I am not trying to shame anyone, I just think triple digits is a lot. I may need to move or something! I have always asked… That number means something to me, personally. If a guy that had been with five women asked me how many and I said over or I lost count…and he ran in the other direction… No… I could not fault him for that. That seems silly to me. Everyone can do what they want… And different people are comfortable with different things. I personally think some numbers are high. I am not being mean.
I am glad women can do what they want and sleep with whomever they choose. If having a partner with an extreme amount of sexual partners makes you uncomfortable, why should you have to look past that and have sex with them? Just recognize that your preferences are different and move on. Again, the problem is not not wanting to have sex with someone based on different sexual preferences.
The problem is the shaming. If you want to think of me as a bad person because of that, fine. They are mine, and you cannot shame me for them. Personally, I take into context our society and how it conditions attitudes towards sex. If a guy has sexual partners in the three digits, that seems like someone who is steeped in toxic masculinity. At some point, I do expect people to lose count. Just because… who has the time? Of course someone like me that has only slept with a couple of people is probably not going to want to sleep with someone who has slept with so many women. That is not due to my being insecure or controlling.
I place a high value on sex. That just seems like normal logic to me. I think that these things indicate a difference in values. I am not saying I am better, just that I am different. HH: And what do you say about women with their number being in the three digits? Queenb… It most definitely indicates that we have different values. Is that wrong to admit and say out loud or something? I as an individual know what I want in a partner and I want someone that is relatively like me.
I would never have a one night stand. I do not want a partner that has either. You sound like a woman that is passionate and knows what she wants. That is really great and I like that about you. But different people like different things. That is just how it is. I think it does. There is clearly a difference of opinion on sex there. And that goes for women and men.
Stop judging them as bad people because they make the sexual decisions that are right for them. And you know, as much as you think we are shaming others for their number of sexual partners, you are shaming the heck out of us for having a different opinion than you, QueenB. Men would be more likely and conditioned to think along those lines. Even knowing someone in this instance though, they just thought that the woman saw intimacy differently than they did. No one is making snap judgments about them being good or bad people, overall. In Croatian a sidepiece comes in both the female form ljubavnica and male form ljubavnik , as do most nouns.
You find it quite often in literature. That man is her lover. However, lover also has many meanings…my husband is still technically my lover, and even if done in a jokey way some people refer to their partners as their lovers. Mistress, on the other hand, really only has one meaning in modern, American, English. Just as a note, this was in the days long before tinder and online dating. I am talking almost 25 years ago. I still know the guy, am still friends with him. He has settled down in the last few years but still does not, and has never had, a long term partner.
To each his own and I am not one to care about numbers. I was, and always will be, concerned for his safety and the safety of those he is with. He is a nice guy and is very honest so those who are with him know what they are in for. That said, I am very aware of being irresponsible when one is young. That would be why I have an adult daughter who is now getting married, at my age.
Like I said previously, I am not one to slut-shame. Kudos to him for being so and for still being so. Again, I was not one to judge as I was no angel. My husband was very open about his number when we decided to get serious and so was I. We had known each other for years and he was surprised more so by mine then I was by his but it was not a factor in how we felt and still feel for each other. It may be for some, and that is also their choice, but we all have a past and that is what it is, a past.
Life goes on and in the grand scheme of things does it really effect anyone other than you? Her way of life is not what i would choose, but bravo for her standing to what she wants and enjoys. I had 3 People in my sexuell history and feel quite happy and satisfied with my 3rd and if i am lucky lasting till we dying, one.
I remember my first one hatefully because i was 6 when he started and i had to endure for 5 years. My second one was years later and felt nice and my now one is my love. Hugs to you, Ria. In terms of your sexuality — You do you!! Live and let live, amiritie? Amanduh Like i said bravo to her for doing what she enjoys And yes, live and let live.
How is shaming or trying to shame someone for choosing to not have a lot of partners any different from shaming or trying to shame someone for choosing to have a lot of partners? Yeah, so natural and healthy what with the STDs now becoming drug resistant and all. People can certainly live however they choose, but others will judge. Sex with lots of people spreads disease and is damaging socially and mentally to both sexes.
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I It continually amazes me that people are so determined to destroy the foundations of society and turn it into Brave New World. Most are going to die alone, lonely and miserable. If I sleep with a man I expect him to love me. I am not going to bed with just anyone.
I am not wired that way and I am okay with that. I have known men this way too. So you basically shamed her for not sleeping around. Maybe you need to learn to accept both sides and let people live. This is a lovely attitude. You like your sex one way, I like my sex another.
Viva la difference and you do you. Funny how that works. To clarify, I think this is darkly funny from a survivor. A pointed show of how our valuation of purity mixes with a combination of victim shaming and silence and the idiocy of rendering human sexuality down to a number. Poking fun at the asker, by showing them the scarier and more complicated parts of sexuality and power politics. I counted my rapist as a person whom i had sex with, sadly numerous times and AGAINST my will, other people who are survivors will till the day of their death not count it as sex, because they say it is sex only when it is of free will and without abuse.
After listening to my stories I think he regretted asking. PZC Sad fistbump back to you. I am sorry you had to endure it. I did not want to attack you, just was asking out of curiosity. Like i said everyone counts Different. I think for them rape counts as 0. Shamed even worse if you have it, really like it and happen to mention the fact that you like it.
Heaven forbid……. Is there a lot of shaming lady virgins? Outside of highschool, or maybe early college? I do get your point though, where you have to have the exact right number. Not too many or you are a bow-legged hussy, not too few or you are an ice queen prude.
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How else are you going to control half the population? There is a major difference between chaste young woman and old maid.
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Gotta label them something horrible then, if they have no use for a man. This topic is interesting too. An Healthy sex life is the sex life good for me and only me. A woman is feeling well having more partners? Then this is good for her. A woman is feeling well having only a partner? A woman is feeling well having no partners? Good for her too. And regarding the virgin issue: there are people men and women which, very simply, are not interested in sex, any kind of sex, and not for moralism or bigotry, and they live a good and meaningful life the same.
I enjoy her a lot, she actually makes me re-think some stuff. Or think about it at all. Do I care how many people someone has slept with? That surprised me a bit. I say, D. Even then, why would numbers matter? Regular health checks do, and women should not be ashamed of being honnest with their MD about their sexual practices. Once you get tested and are in the clear, then you can forget about them if you wish too. And I stopped counting after 3 digits lol.
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